The Alchemist

The Alchemist- A Book Summary-1,000,000 $ (maybe more) Treasure, you always carry!!!

-Paulo Coelho

The Alchemist.

No matter what he does, every person on earth plays a central role in the history of the world.
And normally he doesn’t know it.

– by Paulo Coelho (The Alchemist)

Book Summary No one should Miss!!!

It’s  story about young shepherd Santiago, who is able to find a treasure beyond it’s wildest dreams and feelings of self doubt. In this fable the author uses magical realism to portray  Santiago’s physical and spiritual journey, as he learns to listen to his heart and realizes that his aspirations belong not only to him but to the universe as well.

Living in Andalusia Spain, Santiago was a humble shepherd who wants only to roam with his sheep, enjoy wine and read a good book. Fate intervene however in the form of a recurring dream about a great treasure hidden at the base of the Egyptian pyramids. Santiago meets Melchizedek, a strange wise man and king from a far off land.

Melchizedek appears to those who are seeking their personal legend or deepest life long goal. This ambition comes from the soul of the world which conspires everyone to reach their deepest desire. Unfortunately fear and routine often get in the way.  Soon Santiago decides to sell his flock and seek his treasure. Melchizedek gives Santiago two stones , a black stone called Urim meaning Yes and a white stone called Thummim meaning No. Santiago is to consult these if he cannot understand the omens. He set sail to Africa to seek his treasure and personal legend.

Egyptian Pyramids
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Santiago’s first day in Tangier Morocco, he is robbed and left completely alone. Unable to speak a single word of Arabic, Santiago contemplates giving up and turning around but he remembers the words of wise man and carries on. Eventually he finds work at a crystal shop for one year where he earns enough money to buy a new flock of sheep and return home. Instead he joins a caravan crossing the desert to Egypt thus moving closer to his dream.

On the caravan Santiago meets an Englishman who has come all the way to Africa to seek a renowned alchemist. His new travel companion carries two stone just like Santiago’s and believe that it is not accidental that two of them have met. Santiago finds the Englishman’s ideas to be similar to Melchizedek’s. They both speak of a soul of the world to which we are all connected. The Englishman also reveals that goal of alchemy is “the master work which includes a liquid called  elixir of life and a solid called the Philosopher’s stone.

Treasure
Philosopher’s stone.

When they finally arrive at the Al-faiyum oasis, the home of the titular alchemist. Santiago meets a beautiful girl called Fatima with whom he immediately falls in love. He soon discover that love like the personal legend comes directly from the soul of the world. While walking in the desert, Santiago has the vision of an upcoming battle. He rushes back to warn the elders at the oasis. The next day 500 armed tribesmen entered the oasis as Santiago predicted.

The man duly warned kill all of the intruders. The chieftain of the oasis awards Santiago 50 pieces of gold and offers him a position of counsellor. Santiago considers staying at the oasis with his new found love Fatima instead of seeking the pyramids. Fatima however tells Santiago that she understands his need to realize his goal. The women of the desert explains are proud of their men’s freedom. This confuses Santiago who is unable to separate love and possession.

The Alchemist

The alchemist finds Santiago and tells him that he will lead him to his treasure. While on the move the alchemist teaches Santiago that hearts can be treacherous but the best way to keep them from fooling you is to listen to them intently. One must listen to the soul of the world to find one’s treasure. Everything on earth even minerals has a personal legend. This is why alchemist can change any metal into gold. They are simply metal achieve it’s personal legend.

When the two traveler taken prisoner by a warring tribe, the alchemist in an effort to save their lives claims that Santiago is a magician who can turn himself into wind. Santiago has no idea what he is doing, but eventually starts to pray with acknowledgement that his heart and the soul of the world are one. Immediately the winds whips up and Santiago disappears and reappears at the other side of the camp. The tribe chief was so impressed that they let the traveler go.

The Alchemist.

The next day the men arrives at a monastery. The alchemist uses his piece of philosopher stone to turn lead into a quantity of gold and give some to Santiago and some to a monk. Santiago continues to the pyramids alone. There he is overwhelmed with joy realizing he can turn back now that the real treasure is not the gold or jewels but the wisdom he has gained from his journey and his love for Fatima. His heart tells him to dig a spot where he sees a scarab beetle.

As he starts digging robbers beats him savagely, taking all of his money, when Santiago tries to explain what he is doing, one of the men tell him he is a fool. The robber explains to Santiago that he had a recurring dream too depicting the same treasure. But the treasure was in Spain instead.

He however was not stupid enough to go chasing after it. After the robbers leave Santiago gets up elated realizing that the treasure was back in Spain the entire time. Backs in Andalusia Santiago digs a hole at the base of sycamore tree where he first has the dream about the treasure. He finds trunk full of gold just as the alchemist insists that all the secrets he holds are simple. So too was the treasure always at home. Santiago returns to Fatima, confirming the alchemist’s prophecy. In the end he is able to achieve his personal legend and find his true love.

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Emotional Intelligence

Beyond IQ, Emotional Intelligence is the new Intelligence. 4 ways to make your Life better.

Emotional Intelligence.

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE IS NEW INTELLIGENCE

Daniel Goleman argues that IQ is not everything, our current view of intelligence is too narrow. Ignoring important abilities that determine how well we do in life. The superior metric that Goleman prefers to use to measure life success is EQ otherwise known as Emotional Intelligence.

It is made of 5 things.

1. Self Awareness- this is knowing one’s emotions as they happen. If you can do this you’ll make better decisions.

2. Managing Emotions- This is the ability to handle feelings. People that can manage their emotions are good at bouncing back from setbacks in life

3. Self Motivation- 4. Empathy- this is recognizing emotions and others. This is the people skill that makes people better at teaching sales and Management.

5. Handling Relationships- these abilities lead to popularity leadership and interpersonal effectiveness.

So, how do we improve our emotional intelligence. Goleman offers various insights throughout the book. Let’s go over the ones that I found the most useful and I think you will too.

Lesson 1:

The Ventilation Fallacy:

Venting when you are angry prolongs your mood rather than ending it. Goleman along with multiple studies argues that venting your anger doesn’t make you feel better, but instead prolongs and amplifies your anger. It pumps up the emotional Brain’s arousal and leaves people feeling more angry. Don’t get confused though venting when you are sad can be great way to get your feelings validated , but isn’t as effective when you are angry.

So when you feel yourself becoming angry what can you do to control your anger.

  • Take few deep breaths to help you relax and slow your heart rate, this helps your body go from high arousal to low arousal.
  • Go for a walk, but don’t indulge into anger inducing thoughts.
  • As bad thoughts come to you write them down and then reframe them.
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Lesson 2:

Don’t ruminate when you are sad, distract yourself instead.:

A saleswoman gets depressed and spent so many hours worrying about it that she doesn’t get important sales call. Her sales making her feel like a failure which feeds her depression. But if she reacted to depression by trying to distract herself. She might plunge into the sales calls as a way to get her mind off the sadness. Sales would less likely to decline and the very experience of making a sale might boost their self confidence, lessening their depression somewhat.

What Goleman trying to say here? Is that continuing to think negative thoughts will lead you deeper into the sadness. Distractions are what break the chain of sadness maintaining thinking, the best distractions are ones that will shift your moods such as funny movie, reading an uplifting book or going to an exciting sport event. Goleman says distractions are more effective than crying because crying often reinforces rumination and prolongs misery.

Goleman offers 4 more solutions to managing sadness.

  • Exercise: Aerobic exercise is good because it changes your physiological state. Depression is a low arousal state, an aerobic exercise counters up by putting you into a high arousal state.
  • Go for that easy success. Do that small tasks that you have been putting off for a while and reap the rewards.
  • Reframe the situation- Just like with anger take note of bad thoughts when they come to you and see them in a more positive light. What can I learn form it. There are few things which would never happen if you didn’t change your thinking.
  • Lastly help other in need. It helps us to empathize with others and lifts us out of negativity.

Lesson 3:

The  Artful Critique.

How to criticize the right way. Criticism is important in how it is given. It determines how satisfied people are with their work with those when they work with and those who are responsible.

One of the worst criticisms are if you’re managing people is to say “you’re screwing up” delivered in Harsh sarcastic angry tone. It provided neither a chance nor any suggestions of ho to do things better, It ignores the person’s feelings and leave them feeling helpless and angry.

Much more effective way to criticize would be to say the main difficulty at this stage is that your plan will take too long and so escalates the cost, I would like you to think more about your proposal to see if you could do your job more quickly. This gives them hope of doing better and suggest the beginning of a plan to do so.

Goleman says you need four things to successfully deliver constructive criticism. They are

  • Be specific.
  • Offer a solution.
  • Do it face to face.
  • Be sensitive by showing empathy.
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Lesson 4:

Emotional Contagion set the emotional tone.

So in a simple experiment two volunteers filled out a checklist about their merits at the moment and then started facing each other quietly waiting for the experiments to return to the room , two minute later, they returned and asked him to fill out the mood checklist again.

The pair’s were purposely chosen so that one partner was highly expressive of emotion and one who appeared flat and expressionless. It turns out that the mood of the expressive person had been transferred to the expressionless person.

This is an example of emotional contagion, our emotions are contagious like a virus they spread through others, this is why speakers like Tony Robbins are able to hype up their audience and get them involved. They show their passion and energy which spreads through the audience like wildfire.

Goleman says this ability to drive the emotional state and another person through emotional contagion is at the hearth of influencing people whether that’s through speaking teaching singing or in any other interpersonal communication.

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